Save My Marriage Today is a course by Amy Waterman and Andrew Rusbatch, that deals with a specific and unfortunately all too common problem, failing marriages.
The program was recently updated to include a bunch of new content that I’ll discuss briefly, as well as sharing my overall opinion of the course and what you can expect from it.
Can it be done?
That’s the big question.
All couples have problems, some big, some small. Some of these problems can be sorted out and other problems can’t. Now I’m sure that there will be some religious people who read this who think that divorce is a sin, yadda-yadda and needs to be avoided at all costs, but I feel differently.
In my mind, sometimes divorce really IS the best option. I mean really, if a relationship gets violent for instance, I think we can agree, it’s time to MOVE ON!
However, if you are reading this, then you probably feel like divorce, or breaking up is not the best option for you. So you are probably thinking, is there a way to save your marriage? Well, more than likely yes there is a way. I personally stopped an impending divorce myself a number of years ago. I won’t go into the details, but suffice to say we were having some issues, we split up for a while, and I was able to turn things around using some advanced relationship ju-jitsu…
So in my case, I saved my marriage (although I chose to divorce her a year later). So I know it can be done. Now let’s look a the Save My Marriage Today program and see if it can be helpful on this mission…
A brief run-down on the Save My Marriage Today program…
Obviously a complete overview of everything you’ll get/learn is available on their official website, so I won’t paraphrase it. Basically, you get a complete explanation of what is really going on with your husband (or if you are a guy your wife), why he is saying he wants a divorce, why he is lying, why he cheated, why you fight… You get the answers to these questions based on research, and these things are pretty universal, so as “special and different” as you may think that your husband is, this still applies to him.
Then, you get instructions on what to actually DO, to save your marriage, exercises, how to get rid of the negative feeling and get things back to how they used to be, or better.
I think that my biggest take away from the course was that having your spouse say that they don’t love you anymore and that they want a divorce doesn’t mean that the really don’t love you. What it mean is that they’ve lost their way, and that you need to step up and take charge of the situation, and lead them back to understanding what is really going on.
After that initial “Honeymoon stage” a lot of people get confused and disillusioned, and this is the stage where most break ups and divorces happen. It’s the couples who make it through this stage that get to an even better stage of mature love and understanding.
Who is this course for?
The course is really for everybody who wants to save their marriage or long term committed relationship. If that is you, I recommend looking at this course as I’m sure you’ll find many helpful insights to improve your current situation.
There are actually two versions of the program, the complete Premium Home Study Course and the ebook version. The Premium Home Study version includes a 12 part video course, bonuses and four additional programs that go into a lot of detail on depression, addiction, infidelity, and money issues that are all major causes of divorce that you may be dealing with.
That version costs more of course, but considering the cost of divorce I don’t think this is really a time to pinch pennies! Also, both versions come with a free email consultation which is pretty cool…
Here are the links to the programs, GOOD LUCK!